{"id":1787,"date":"2026-08-09T17:40:37","date_gmt":"2026-08-09T15:40:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost:8888\/Current\/?page_id=1787"},"modified":"2026-08-18T21:43:11","modified_gmt":"2026-08-18T19:43:11","slug":"s-about","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/samben.us\/?page_id=1787","title":{"rendered":"Personal turned Professional"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-text-annotation is-style-text-annotation--1\">If you just want to see the courses and topics, you might want to skip this page.   But I hope you will not, and then we might actually end up working together.  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Personal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am a native speaker of American English. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I was fifteen (15) years old, I came to live in France for the first time. I was alone, I did not speak a word of French, and I had never been anywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In France I found not just a new country but an entire new world. I spent those early years fascinated by not just Paris, but by all of France.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was most struck by the experience of learning French. This was not just a new language, it was a completely new means of communicating. I was already comfortable in both English and Spanish, but French was altogether different. For me this is an adventure that is still ongoing. It has moved far beyond just the words of the language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Personal becomes Professional<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I graduated from Stanford Law School. I am a member in good standing of the State Bar of California, and I am a member of the Bar of the Supreme Court of the United States. I worked at the Office of Legal Affairs at the United Nations in New York among other places.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In Houston, I was a hospital administrator in a 900-plus-bed tertiary-care private hospital. I ran a multimillion-dollar business in Southern California and Nevada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have litigated class action federal civil rights cases. I have tried hundreds of cases before a jury, others to the bench, and handled appeals, both direct and collateral. I have dealt with probably every major U.S. government agency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For decades, as a lawyer I handled countless cases: ranging from the massive and to the small. Each was important to my individual client and therefor to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eventually, various federal judges began to ask me to agree to defend death row inmates. I knew Clemenceau had also done it. Surely this was something I should also do? So I did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was a stressful but intellectually challenging area.  Qualitatively different from the massive fraud cases, and complex financial transactions, civil rights class actions, and everything else I had known.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-text-annotation is-style-text-annotation--2 wp-block-paragraph\">Throughout those years, I carried within me an intellectual lodestar, a legacy of my time in France: French statesman Georges Clemenceau. Le Tigre guided me in many areas, certainly including my ethics and principles. And my commitment to justice and fairness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I practiced as a trial and appellate lawyer. After decades of extensive experience in the U.S. federal courts, I am now back in France.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-text-annotation is-style-text-annotation--3 wp-block-paragraph\">Over my entire lifetime, France has been generous and given me so very much. My hope now is to return some of that generosity. Daily I enjoy assisting French professionals, helping as they work to improve their mastery of English and to bridge the gulf between the franco-anglo cultures. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know what it means to have a frenzied schedule, too many clients to see, too many professional and court obligations, and always too little time. I will always be respectful of that reality in your own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want a more detailed presentation of my professional history, please click the following link.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/samben.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/CV.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Letter of Introduction and Curriculum Vitae (PDF)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">France?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have spent a substantial portion of my life in France. All over France. I have been watching and interacting with French people almost my entire life. I see differences, great and small. The French person might casually say <em>revenons \u00e0 nos moutons<\/em> without realizing the American has no idea what is happening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is what I invite you to share: do not just learn additional vocabulary or phrasal verbs, learn also how those tools help us express ourselves to our companions and associates in any language. Doing this will help you become more comfortable in English, and more fluent as well. In SamBen classes we will address culture while our focus remains on helping you improve your English.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I want to help you when you may be unaware you risk going off the rails. Maybe you want to be a <em>provocateur<\/em> just for fun? Maybe it is simply inadvertence. Maybe you just want a good laugh. Be careful when you say pants, are you speaking with an American or a British person?  The goal always is just be yourself. SamBen will work to ensure you know what you are doing in English and that you make informed decisions while doing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Absolutely!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Oh, la belle France. Et ces amerloques<\/em>!  Surely we can all just use Google translate and be done with it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Are we at war?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the start, it seems my new (French) students write down almost everything I say. <em>Ils notent, ils notent, ils notent<\/em>. I notice what they are doing. It is very respectful and I am impressed. Still, in my experience, that is not what a typical American student will do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The American tends to listen, and judges. Only occasionally does the average American write something down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why does this difference occur over and over? Does this tendency influence how each will handle interpersonal matters, even business transactions?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While the French student is respectful and focused, the American tends toward the disbelieving, almost disrespectful. I start to think of Jules Ferry, and mandatory French schooling that starts at age three and I wonder . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hear the French admonition: &#8220;<em>\u00e7a ne se fait pas comme \u00e7a<\/em>&#8221; and I instinctively contrast it with the American: &#8220;well, let&#8217;s try that and see what happens.&#8221;   Then I am reminded of the famous quip:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-text-annotation is-style-text-annotation--4 wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You can always count on Americans to do the right thing\u2014after they&#8217;ve tried everything else.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neither approach is right; neither approach is wrong. What is, is.  Why is French so fond of <em>la litote<\/em>?   Why is American English less restrained than British English?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you want to bridge a gap between different concepts &#8211;between different styles of learning&#8211; a barrier can stop you unless you recognize what you are facing and use it to your advantage or work to remove it.   Please continue to learn new words, and synonyms.   Just do not stop there.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Or are we just having a jolly old time?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I frequently ask my French students to start each class by telling &#8211;in English&#8211; a joke. It seems at first this panics and confounds a great many of them. With time they settle into this, and then find it allows more space to develop where we can all meet and exchange freely, teacher and students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That freedom offers us a jumping-off point for endless cultural comparisons: why does that joke work in English but not in French? Or vice versa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What if you are not dealing with an American, but a Brit? Hmmm.   Does that make a difference?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Teaching &#8211;and learning&#8211; are not as straight and narrow a path as some people like to think they are. I tend to see them rather as part of the joy of life. If you are with SamBen you will always be learning.  I hope you will fully enjoy the path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I choose to live in France. <em>J&#8217;adore la France. En fait, j&#8217;adore tout ce qui est fran\u00e7ais. Depuis les lais de Marie de France jusqu&#8217;aux contes de Rabelais, et bien plus encore<\/em>. I want France, and the French, to reach ever greater heights. Especially when dealing with the other group I know really well, Americans. I want to I help you be an ever better communicator in English while ensuring you never renounce even one ounce of <em>votre gaullisme<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To continue to the next page, <a href=\"https:\/\/samben.us\/?page_id=1776\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"2079\">please click here<\/a>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you just want to see the courses and topics, you might want to skip this page. But I hope you will not, and then we might actually end up working together. Personal I am a native speaker of American English. 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